
The Happya Life
What if thriving wasn’t about having it all together but about learning to live fully, even in the messiness?
Welcome to The Happya Life Podcast, where we cut through the self-help fluff and get real about what it takes to heal, grow, and create a life that feels good from the inside out.
If you’ve ever felt stuck in survival mode exhausted by self-doubt, overwhelmed by life, or like you’re constantly putting everyone else first while barely holding yourself together this podcast is for you.
💡 What if happiness wasn’t something you had to earn but something you were always worthy of?
💡 What if you stopped waiting for the “right time” to feel good and started now?
💡 What if you finally had the tools to break free from the patterns that keep you stuck?
I’m Clare Deacon, positive psychology coach, therapist, and author of Blooming Happya. With expertise in coaching, therapy, and nervous system regulation, I take a trauma-informed, science-backed approach to self-worth, resilience, and personal growth.
This podcast is where coaching meets neuroscience meets real-life transformation because shifting your mindset is great, but if your nervous system still believes self-worth is unsafe, no amount of positive thinking will stick.
Expect deep insights, practical tools, and straight-talking wisdom to help you:
✔ Rewire self-doubt and release guilt.
✔ Heal from past experiences without getting stuck in them.
✔ Stop people-pleasing and start setting boundaries.
✔ Drop the pressure to be "perfect" and start living fully.
If you’re ready to ditch the self-help clichés and step into who you actually are, hit play. Because this? This is where your real transformation begins.
🎧 Available on all major podcast platforms!
The Happya Life
The Power of Self Love: Building a strong foundation for happiness
In this episode, we will be exploring the power of self-love, what it is and why it is important, the barriers to self-love and I will then be sharing some expert tips for building self-love a foundation for happiness. So, whether you are a seasoned practitioner of self-love or looking to improve the relationship you have with yourself I hope you find this episode helpful and inspiring.
Self- Love is a critical component of our psychological wellbeing and a key factor in our ability to live a happy and fulfilling life. It’s about embracing our unique qualities, acceptance of our flaws, forgiveness of our mistakes and holding ourselves in positive regards, holding value in ourselves, and acknowledging our worth.
10 ideas for improving your self love.
1. Practice self care
2. Manage the self talk
3. Self reflect with journalling
4. Express gratitude
5. Spend time in nature
6. Treat yourself
7. Surround yourself with positive people
8. Learn something new
9. Set goals towards your dream
10. Engage in acts of kindness.
Remember self-love and happiness are a journey, not a destination. It takes time to build a positive relationship with yourself, but with effort and dedication, you can find self-love and live a fulfilling life.
Don't forget to join the SELF-LOVE CHALLENGE www.happyacoach.com/selflove
Also, join us in The Happa Life Playgroup Facebook Group www.facebook.com/groups/thehappyalife
Book a Chat: https://happyacoach.com/chat
Email: clare@happyacoach.com
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